Men need women, so we must love them.
If you don’t love them, it will be a chore to deal with women.
So, I made a 10-item list of things to love about women.
Note that this is not a list of qualities you should take into account when you are choosing a girlfriend or wife. These are the qualities all women already have.
#1) Women Hate Nice Guys
Nice guys are the men who take women out to expensive dinners, buy them flowers, shower them with compliments with the hopes of winning her over.
They prefer to conceal their real intentions for months or years, providing her with endless attention, validation, and money in the process.
These tactics rarely help nice guys. Women usually friendzone them.
They rarely manage to get the girl and even when they do get the girl, it usually comes with the cost of putting a ring on her finger.
Imagine that “the nice guy way” is the only way to get women. We would have to waste a huge amount of time and resources, just to get a girl.
Thankfully, we don’t need to do these things to get women.
#2) Women Love Muscles
Strength training and building muscle have an incredible array of benefits (including sex) for a man. And it only takes 3 hours a week of training, so it would be really stupid not to do it.
If the girls didn’t like muscular men, that would be a huge bummer because we have a strong biological urge to bang women. If strength training would seriously hurt my attractiveness to women, I would consider not doing it at all.
Thankfully, women love muscular men.
Building muscle will make you more attractive to women, so while you are enjoying the other benefits of getting strong, you can also enjoy the increased attention from women.
#3) Women Have a Better Mating Evaluation System
Men are superficial. We only value youth, good looks, and sweetness on a woman.
We don’t care if she is well traveled, speaks 5 languages, rich, educated, popular, strong, independent, confident, driven, witty or courageous. None of these things would make an ugly or a fat woman appear more attractive to us.
Thankfully, women evaluate men on a much broader spectrum.
No matter what’s your situation in life, you can always make yourself more attractive to women by self-improvement.
You can make more money, become more popular, travel more, build a muscular body, dress better, increase your confidence and so on. All these improvements will make you more attractive to women.
#4) Women Prefer Older Men
Women prefer men who are older than themselves.
This will bite your ass when you are 18 years old because all the girls that like you will be of illegal age (depending on the place you live in).
But there’s a huge upside to this. As you get older, more and more women will like you, provided that you keep your body and financial status in shape.
I’m currently 41 and the oldest woman I dated in the last 5 years was 28 years old and the youngest was 19.
Most women of my age look like grannies to me. I can’t even imagine dating a 41-year-old woman.
Thankfully, I don’t need to do that. Since women like older men, I can date younger women with no problems.
This makes sense biologically too. Men are fertile until they die. Women start losing their fertility gradually after they are 25 and they completely lose it after menopause.
#5) Women Can Easily Be Replaced
I’m lucky to have dated with multiple women from multiple nationalities, races, and continents. When you have these kinds of interactions with women from many different backgrounds and cultures, you start noticing patterns.
And that pattern is, all women are more or less the same. All women have millions of things in common. Only a handful of differences separate them from each other.
The certain qualities you expect from a good woman can be classified into a list of 10-15 items and that’s it.
No woman is special. 99.9% of the time they all behave the same.
Understanding this will strengthen your hand.
If a woman is not making your life better, you can easily replace her.
She is not special.
If you love her but she dumps you, there’s no reason to think you can’t find anyone like her. Because you can.
Read more: How to Choose the Right Girlfriend
#6) Women Don’t Want to Be Your Priority
A woman will hate a man who makes her a priority in his life.
This a good thing because women’s wants are endless. Give her the world, she will ask for the moon. Give her the moon, she will ask for the sun.
If you make women the priority in your life, you wouldn’t have time for anything else. Your whole time would be spent trying to meet her wants.
Thankfully, women respect a man with his own priorities other than women.
They appreciate a man with a mission and a drive, so we can keep building things without worrying about neglecting our women.
#7) Women Love Selfish Men
Nice guys think that they need to put a woman’s needs before their own needs to make her happy. But they always end up getting walked over.
Because women love, adore and respect a selfish man.
All living things are selfish by nature. Men are living beings too, so we too are selfish by default.
If we had to be selfless around our women, we would be miserable because going against our nature will destroy us.
Thankfully we don’t need to do that.
We can be as selfish as we want and she will love us even more for that.
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#8) You Don’t Need to Take Women Seriously
Women are irrational creatures, mainly driven by their emotions.
Their behaviors are not much different than a child’s. Women are children.
When you are in a relationship with a woman, she will have all kinds of emotional turmoils, mood swings, silly games, crying, yelling and so on. If you take her seriously, your life will be a living hell.
Thankfully, we don’t need to take them seriously. You wouldn’t take a kid’s tantrums seriously, would you? Same goes for women.
This is a huge advantage for men because you can safely ignore 99% of her behaviors and continue doing what you are doing without needing to waste your time dealing with her.
Read more: Is That The Man You Want To Be?
#9) Women are Followers Not Leaders
Women hate taking responsibility and they hate making decisions.
This means you can call the shots in your relationship with her.
You can freely choose where to live, what to eat, what to wear, what she can wear, which car to drive, what vacation spot to go and so on.
You can leave her the decisions you don’t care about such as choosing the color of the furniture, walls, the type of kitchen utensils etc.
#10) Women Are Chameleons
Men and women are frighteningly different.
For a woman and a man to get along, one of them needs to change.
Thankfully, women are chameleons. If they love and respect you, they will change for you.
You can change her behaviors to your liking with a solid reward-punishment mechanism.
This is a blessing because it’s a lot of work to change your behavior according to your partner.
Women change for us so we can keep being the man who attracted her without any effort whatsoever.
Read more: How to Reward or Punish Your Girlfriend