You should never listen to a woman’s advice but how about your mother?
After all, she is your mother and she cares about you.
It doesn’t make sense to ignore her advice, right?
In this article, I will first explain why you should never take advice from a woman, then I will expand it to taking advice from your mother.
Why You Should Never Listen to a Woman
#1) Women Act out of Emotion, Not Logic
Women are emotional. They live their lives on autopilot.
They act on emotion and justify their actions with bullshit logic later.
Good advice comes from reason and logic. Not from emotion.
#2) Women Are Not Reliable
If you observe them carefully, you will notice that women have absolutely no qualms about saying one thing and doing the complete opposite.
They say they like nice guys but they go and bang bad boys. They say they love brainy guys but they line up for muscular men.
Their preferences are also fluid. If she is dating a hairy man, she will say she likes hairy men. If her man is not hairy she will say she doesn’t like hairy men.
Their word is unreliable so you can safely ignore what they say.
#3) Women Are Superficial
Women have no curiosity to figure out how the world actually works.
This is why all the inventions in the human history are made by men. Women don’t have enough curiosity to dive deeper into any subject and extract an invention out of it.
All they know about everything is what they learned at school, watched on TV or read in newspapers or popular books.
They just scratch the surface of any subject and think that they know everything about it.
Any man who has a depth of knowledge on a particular subject knows that 99% of what appears on the surface is not true.
You only discover the truth when you dive deeper and that’s what women never do.
#4) Women Flock to the Popular
Women biologically flock to what’s popular. In their minds popularity equals truth.
They worship celebrities.
The opinions of celebrities and the charlatans they see on television matter more than anything to women.
Homework: Check the twitter account of the smartest woman you know. How many celebrities is she following?
The education they get at school is basically state propaganda and the education they get from the mainstream media is downright false.
Women’s travel advice doesn’t mean anything either.
When a woman travels, she will go popular travel destinations such as Barcelona, Paris, Rome, London or whatever place is popular at the moment.
#5) Women Are Copycats
Women are never original. They are too lazy and superficial to form their own ideas.
They get their opinions from popular figures or from people who they deem powerful at the moment.
They wear what other women or celebrities are wearing. They read what others are reading etc.
They are herd animals.
Why would you take advice from a copycat when you can take it from the original?
#6) Women Aren’t Risk Takers
Women are cowards. They are risk averse and timid.
Bravery and taking risks is the essence of masculinity.
Taking advice from women will steer you to risk-free and fruitless endeavors.
#7) Women Can’t Relate to Men’s Sexual Desires
Men have an extremely strong sex drive. It’s the sole reason why humans made it to the 21st century.
All 7 billion people on the world are the results of sexual intercourse.
Sex is life.
Women’s sexual desires are significantly weaker than men’s.
If the occurrence of sexual intercourse was left to women’s initiative, we would be long extinct.
Women will never understand your sexual desires so you better ignore their attraction and relationship advice.
#8) Women Are Selfish
Women don’t care about men.
They only care about themselves.
Women spend the entire day thinking about themselves. Even her dreams are all about herself.
Would you take advice from a person who has zero concern about you?
This doesn’t apply to our mothers.
A mother has a genuine concern for the well-being of her son, so at least you can take your mother’s advice seriously?
Well, not exactly.
Why You Shouldn’t Listen to Your Mother
I love my mom. She’s a great woman who did her best to raise me and my brother.
She genuinely cares about us but that doesn’t mean her advice was always useful.
Let’s look at the advice mothers usually give to their sons:
#1) Dating/relationship advice
Woman have no idea about how to attract women. You think they would know but they don’t.
They can’t even explain what exactly attracts them to a man. They honestly don’t know it.
Women aren’t attracted to nice guys but all mothers try to raise their sons as nice guys.
If you listen to your mom’s attraction advice, you will end up as a nice guy.
And we all know that nice guys are more likely to spend their life masturbating to attractive girls rather than actually banging them.
#2) Fitness advice
You would expect a mother to encourage his son to lift weights so that he becomes attractive to girls, right?
I’ve never seen a mother encouraging her son to lift weights.
Lifting weights is the best thing a man can do to himself. Strength training has so many benefits that it would be a colossal mistake not to do it.
Yet, mothers never encourage their sons to lift weights.
His mother did everything she could, to convince Arnold not to lift weights.
If Arnold listened to her mother, he would live and die as an ordinary worker bee without accomplishing anything significant in his life.
#3) Business advice
As we mentioned before, women are risk averse.
Your mother cares about your safety more than anything. So, she doesn’t want you to take risks.
There’s a problem, though. It’s impossible to build a business without taking risks.
Mothers will prefer the safest route for you, i.e. getting a job.
If you listen to your mother’s business advice, you will spend your life working for someone else.
#4) Marriage advice
Women are the happiest when they have kids.
When they are younger, they have you. When they get older, they will want grandkids to continue being happy.
She will force you to get married in your 20s. There’s absolutely no reason to get married in your 20s. Your 20s should be spent making money and you should never marry before you make enough money, travel the world and experience all kinds of women from different cultural backgrounds.
Marrying in your twenties is a recipe for ruining your future.
Yet, if you listen to your mother, you will get married in your 20s before you accumulate wealth and relevant life experience.
Don’t listen to your mother’s marriage advice.
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If you listen to your mother and marry early, it will stunt your freedom and probably your financials.
If you listen to your mother and get a job, you will never make enough money and since you will have a boss, it will stunt your freedom too.
If you listen to your mother’s dating advice, you will have trouble getting girls and the only girl you get will be the ugly girl that you will end up marrying.
If you listen to your mother’s fitness advice, you will never start strength training and this will not only stunt your attractiveness to girls, you will also age terribly, will have bad posture and will be susceptible to low self-esteem.
Unfortunately, most men live with their mother’s advice thinking that she can’t be wrong because she loves him.
This leads to them having an average existence in the world and living a miserable life.
I’m not saying that you should hate your mother or anything like that.
Love and respect your mother but don’t take relationship, business, fitness and marriage advice from her.
Until next time.
-Your friend, Lane.