Have you ever felt that life is treating you unfairly?
Have you ever thought that your life would be better if you were born at a better place?
Have you ever wished that your parents were richer, you were taller, more handsome or smarter?
Sometimes you worked hard and did not get the results you wanted.
Sometimes you were rejected, sometimes you were ignored.
Everything seems like an uphill battle.
You Are Not the Only One
Life is not a cakewalk.
No matter who you are, there has been and there will be lots of frustration during your life.
It happens every day to every man.
You are not immune to this.
If you are a man, I guarantee you that life will often be frustrating, depressing and infuriating.
If you want to get ahead in life, here’s the first thing you must understand and accept:
LIFE IS UNFAIR.
You have to get over it because it will never change.
Life has always been unfair and always will be. It’s not a bug, it’s a feature.
No amount of complaining will change this.
Life doesn’t care.
Nature doesn’t care about fairness. Life doesn’t care about you.
This is true no matter who you are. This is especially true if you are a man.
No matter how you feel, life will go on.
Dwelling on the unfairness of life is futile.
Leave the whining and complaining to the weak. Take it like a man and deal with it.
The Benefits of Accepting That Life Is Unfair
1) You will not waste your time trying to change it.
Understanding and accepting the unfairness of life will save you a lot of time.
Your energy is better spent on improving yourself.
2) You will not take it personally.
I know nothing about you, but I am sure that life has treated you unfairly.
How do I know this?
Because it happens to everybody. Life treats every man unfairly.
The difference between winners and losers is this:
Winners deal with it like a real man. They understand that life is unfair and fight back accordingly. Losers do nothing other than complaining that life is unfair. Complaining is NOT a way to solve your problems.
3) You will get rid of the entitlement mentality.
Entitlement is one of the most dangerous plagues of our times. Most people think that they are entitled to a good income, a beautiful wife, a beautiful life etc..
You can have all these but you have to put in the work. None of them will be handed to you on a gold platter.
The world doesn’t owe you anything. You are not a special snowflake. No man is.
Cemeteries are full of people who once thought they were irreplaceable. Life will always go on, with or without you.
You should embrace life as it is and deal with it.
Understand that you have to fight tooth and nail if you want to be an accomplished man.
The Way of The Winners
Did you lose?
Cut your losses and move on.
Did you fail?
Learn from your mistakes and move on.
You will often hear advice about not dwelling on the past. It’s good advice.
No matter what happens right now, a few seconds later, it’s the past.
Channel your energy to now.
Whatever happened in the past stays in the past.
Don’t let it break you.
Be strong and never give up.